Being able to communicate openly is the key to a lasting and happy relationship. But in so many cases it is difficult or even impossible to persuade a man to talk about their feelings, fears and needs. For women this seems very easy to do but men are a different story. If you have this problem and are unable to get the information you need from your partner, it's possible you need to try some new ideas.
Pick the right setting
Men are more comfortable expressing themselves when they're don't feel like they're being pressed to talk. If he's enjoying himself, he might be relaxed enough to really open up. That could be after you've played a sport together, enjoyed a wonderful meal, made love, etc.
Pick the right time
You don't want to blow a chance just because you lost your patience. Be sensitive to when it is a good time to talk and be careful not to approach when your partner is tired or preoccupied.
Inspire him to be like you
It is important to give your partner an example of the time of sharing you are looking for. So whenever possible, look to provide intimate information about your feelings and hopes. Talk about your past experiences, about your fears and your fantasies. This will help him see that sharing is not that bad.
Always look ahead
It's important that you don't keep bringing on past events when you talk about your own feelings. Talk more about how you've changed and how the past is behind you. Men love to move forward and don't enjoy revisiting old topics that they thought were already behind you.
Try not to judge
In many cases your partner may talk about far fetched ideas that you will not agree with. It's important however to let them talk and express these desires before you respond. Remember, our objective is to get him to open up.
Stay attentive
Once your partner has opened up it is crucial to support that. In most cases is will be very discouraging for him if you get distracted. So make sure to tune off that Blackberry and be attentive and in the moment. Let him speak for himself and try not to jump in to complete his sentences.
With all my heart, I wish you the love, light and happiness you deserve. - 29954
Pick the right setting
Men are more comfortable expressing themselves when they're don't feel like they're being pressed to talk. If he's enjoying himself, he might be relaxed enough to really open up. That could be after you've played a sport together, enjoyed a wonderful meal, made love, etc.
Pick the right time
You don't want to blow a chance just because you lost your patience. Be sensitive to when it is a good time to talk and be careful not to approach when your partner is tired or preoccupied.
Inspire him to be like you
It is important to give your partner an example of the time of sharing you are looking for. So whenever possible, look to provide intimate information about your feelings and hopes. Talk about your past experiences, about your fears and your fantasies. This will help him see that sharing is not that bad.
Always look ahead
It's important that you don't keep bringing on past events when you talk about your own feelings. Talk more about how you've changed and how the past is behind you. Men love to move forward and don't enjoy revisiting old topics that they thought were already behind you.
Try not to judge
In many cases your partner may talk about far fetched ideas that you will not agree with. It's important however to let them talk and express these desires before you respond. Remember, our objective is to get him to open up.
Stay attentive
Once your partner has opened up it is crucial to support that. In most cases is will be very discouraging for him if you get distracted. So make sure to tune off that Blackberry and be attentive and in the moment. Let him speak for himself and try not to jump in to complete his sentences.
With all my heart, I wish you the love, light and happiness you deserve. - 29954
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